Pappa, pappee, pappu, cheena, ajji, guddu, jajoo, rukhi, choti, anno, mama, sano, aimo, kayhoo, shosho, noni, munno. and the list goes on and on and on. They are all part of my vast family after marriage. I have always found nick names fun, but in my family nick names are used only till the individual reached puberty, then everyone switched to their regular names. This phenomena does not exist in my inlaws. Nick names have overtaken the real names and become the identity, the reality. Is that a bad thing? Well lets see if they are to become the reality then why dont we just name them that. I mean Munno should be Munno, not Mohammad Manzar – I actually had to research for a whole week till i found out that munno’s real name was mohammad manzar.
By the way, this is just me talking and look at whose talking. I nick name people at a drop of a hat. My best friend is Machar, another is aashoo maashoo, my younger son is reemy, my husband is, oh well we wont go there 😉 It is my way of expressing my laad, my effection, so if I am nick naming you then please be sure, it is becasue I lurve you.
So why suddenly the talk about nick names, actually I am going to a wedding this weekend, where all of the above and more will be present. It is a full hifi, high society, who’s who kind of affair. Designer dresses, Royal Palm, Jewelry… in other words the full works. And these glamour dolls will be called pappa, pappee, pappu, cheena, mama, munni, mano…and the swaggering hunks will be called guddu, munno, noni, babo…Is that even allowed in this kind of affair? will they for this occaision use their real names? or change them for the occiasion? or do what most of the society does – acronyms, the all famous Allah Ditta called AD being a classic, or stick to calling each other sweety and jaan, yaar and boss.
Would I mind if on an occaision like, this someone called me amo or pichkee? No, I wont. I am not just Amena, I am not just Amo, I am not just pickee and I am not just Tutu banana (my latest nick name as given by my younger son). I am all of the above. Each name given me, gives dimension to my personality. They describe what I mean to others. While they describe me they reflect how others feel about me. My nick names complete me, filling in the gaps left by just Amena Aly Kamaal. So while the others revert to sweety and darling, I am happy to stay amz in that wedding.
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